Apr 17, 2026
There's a better way to let go.
I feel somewhat urgent about this conversation. I want to save you from the potential harm and grief that cutting cords can create.
You cannot let go of something that you are aggressively trying to let go of. It's like gripping and shaking something that you actually want to put down.
I...
Apr 10, 2026
Am I worthy of my desires?
So gross. So harmful. So NOT how the universe works.
Do you feel other people's feelings like it's your job? Overplan for outcomes you know you can't really control? Always future-tripping what could happen, brain won't rest?
To my fellow control freak empaths—I've got you.
The heart, your...
Apr 3, 2026
Winning answer: Not that big
I read an interview with Madonna who said that when people came into her home in LA and they saw her Frida Kahlo collection of paintings, if they didn't like Frida Kahlo, she couldn't be their friend.
If I'm hanging out with somebody who turns non-problem problems into problems… I mean, I...